
Do you ever feel like the dad in
the Volvo television commercial racing from his son's swim meet to his
daughter's soccer game? Or feel like the mother who is driving the
stretch van to and from her daughter's soccer game with all 18 of her
teammates in the back?
Do you occasionally feel
like your head is going to explode when you are racing from one event
to the next? Summer brings additional challenges. Weather
conditions can be as tricky (lightning, hail, wind and summer cloudbursts).
Driving to the additional games, practices and lessons on top of all of
the other summer activities with extra hot and cranky kids can make you
feel like screaming, especially on a hot summer day.
It doesn't matter whether
you're racing against the clock to get to a game or practice, with the
car full of kids, stuck in bumper-to-bumper traffic in the 95-degree
heat. Emotions can get the best of us. What we do with our anger and
how we deal with other drivers will make all the difference in how we
act once we get to the event we are going to and whether we get there
safely.
Road Rage Claims Lives
Road rage and "aggressive
driving" claims thousands of lives a year. The National Highway
Transportation Safety Administration (NHTSA) estimates that aggressive
driving has been responsible for 2.28 million crashes and 27,935
traffic fatalities in the past five years. Interactions that might have
involved non-violent gestures a few years back now may involve golf
clubs or weapons. Remember, the deadliest weapons of all are vehicles
themselves.
How To Avoid Becoming A Road Rage Victim
A driver cuts wildly in and out
of traffic, rides your back bumper, flashes lights and honks at you,
cuts you off, yells and makes an obscene gesture. What should you do
when you are the victim of someone else's aggressive driving and road
rage?
According to a public
information campaign created by Nissan North America and Dr. Jerry
Deffenbacher, here are some tips on dealing with road rage:
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Take road rage seriously:
You could be dealing with a volatile, unstable person with a gun, or a
person who, at the slightest provocation, may ram your car or attack
you. It pays to be cautious: Treat every situation as potentially
dangerous and explosive.
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Do not inflame the situation:
The situation must be handled in a calm, safe manner that gets you away
from the conflict. DO NOT make eye contact, make faces or gestures,
yell, flash your lights, or honk your horn.
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Do not be manipulated:
It is natural for you not to want to be pushed around. However,
reacting that way will only inflame the other person. Cool heads
prevail in these situations. If other drivers want to get the best of
you in dangerous and childish ways, let them have the road; you and
your family will be the winner.
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Disengage:
Life is too valuable to let someone with road rage affect you. Do
whatever you reasonably can to avoid the person, making it harder for
them to assault you. Back away, focus on safe driving and disengage. Do
not pull over or get out of your car.
- Seek Help:
If the situation merits, call for help. Do not hesitate to report the
driver, providing as much information as possible. This may avoid a
violent situation, and may eliminate other incidents of road rage.