There is a strong tendency in our society to view participation in sports in the most favorable light. Children are encouraged to participate in organized youth sports programs because they are thought to promote such fundamental values as character, teamwork, determination and commitment. But this bias can be troublesome if it prevents us from seeing that problems in youth sports exist. While we have recently come to realize that some professional athletes have serious problems -drug and alcohol abuse, spousal violence, and acts of sexual aggression - we have been much slower to recognize the problems that have developed in youth sports.
As I see it, there are six major problem areas that we need to address:
Out Of Control Parents
Every parent who has been on the sidelines has seen instances of emotional abuse that are too common in the world of youth sports:
The mortified child whose mother is screaming at the referee about a "blown call"
The embarrassed child whose father is yelling at the coach about "getting my kid into the game"
The despondent child who is being verbally attacked by his or her parent or coach for some perceived lack of effort or for making a "dumb" mistake
It has become fashionable to blame "pushy parents" for many of the excesses seen in children's sports. I think that this is a mistake. Why do, time and again, well-meaning parents begin to act out of character as they get caught up in the emotional roller coaster of their child's competitive situation?
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